Finding True Love After a Rough Breakup

Posted by chrisr on 06 July 2009

Real Relationship Solutions for Real People

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

Finding love is doesn’t have to be like searching for the proverbial needle in a haystack.
Admitedly, it can feel that way, I can assure you that you can find your ideal partner if you follow these steps.
The values and attributes you want in your ideal mate will determine what actions you take to find him or her.
Whether you want fun companionship or deep intimacy,
knowing what you want is the first step.
There are three crucial points to successful partnership chemistry. Attraction or chemistry is not
about looking good, saying all the right things, or making the right moves.
I’m referring to who you are that comes from the inside that will determine how attractive you are and the kind of vibe you give off.
There is a universal principle known as the Law of Attraction which states like attracts like.
When you get clear on exactly what you want, play with the feeling of how it feels to already have what you want, and let go of the how and when, you’ve removed the resistance to having the relationship you deeply desire and deserve.

Here’s further explanation of what I mean.

1. Know what you want.
The universe is made up of energy which is moldable. Physics has taught us that. We are part of this universe and our thoughts are part of the creative energy that molds the energy. For example, everything you see was once at first a thought. Knowing what you want helps you clarify your intentions and
makes a very clear statement for yourself and to the universe. Many of us get wishy washy here and end up having relationships and experiences we don’t think we’d necessary chose. But choose we did. We just chose from a default setting that goes something like… “well, I’m not sure, whatever, maybe,
maybe not.” There’s not much deliberate intent in these kinds of feelings or thoughts. You can be clear about what you want and get it. Go for it and make a comprehensive list of what you want.

2. How will it feel when you have what you want?
To charge up your attraction power, get into the feeling state (the essence) of what it will feel like when. When she calls you those lovely pet names, when he calls to ask where you’d like to go to dinner tonight. The smiles, the laughter, the inside jokes you share. Imagine what it will be like when …

3. Let go of how and when love will show up.
Lastly, become an allower and go with the flow. When you let go and go with the flow, you’ve let go of resistance to having your love show up. Feeling good, expectant and happy releases resistance. From that place you’ll be inspired to actions that put you in the places, be surrounded by circumstances, synchronicities and small miracles that orchestrate the
perfect meeting. That’s how it happened for me and that’s what I teach my clients to do for themselves.

Find out what people are saying about Relationship Group Coaching at www.nanettegeiger.com/groupclass

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