All About Magic of Making Up

When we’ve broken up with a loved one and want them back, we want it to happen fast.  15 minutes would be good, and it can happen.  We don’t want it to take weeks or months as we try to let time heal their wounds.  You can learn more about Get Ex Back here.

There is no need to wait weeks pining for your ex and sitting by the phone hoping to hear from them.  With the right strategy, you can get your ex back in just hours.  Sometimes, you can get them back in as little as fifteen minutes.  Here’s an important piece of the immediate reconnect strategy:

You broke up because something emotional happened for your ex.  Their positive feelings about you have been replaced with negative ones, like anger or betrayal or broken trust.  They broke up with you because negative emotions now cover over the positive ones.

To get your ex back fast – to get them back at all – you need to help them to release the bad feelings filling their heart.  When you can do that, you can get your ex back sometimes in as little as 30 minutes or less.  You can learn more about Get Ex Back here.

How in the world can you, who learned no emotional skills in school, possibly help your ex to release their bad feelings towards you?  There is a seven step process to accomplish this, but one of the key parts you already have used and understand.  It’s generally called venting or getting things off your chest or emptying your cup.

What you have to do is help them to vent.  Let them get these feelings about you off their chest.   So if you cheated on them, for example, they are feeling betrayed, hurt, ashamed.  That’s what fills their heart now.  You’ve got to get them to vent, to empty their cup, to tell you how they feel about what you did. You don’t argue, you don’t defend yourself, you get them to talk and tell you what they think of you.

As they cry or attack you or curse you, if you don’t argue or defend yourself, they will be releasing those negative feelings.  If you do argue with them, then the negative feelings get reinforced.  If you make them feel heard, the emotional charge will get released, making room in their heart to take you back.

Yes, there’s more to the art of helping your ex vent, and there’s some other steps involved besides this one, but venting should be a key part of your immediate reconnect strategy with your ex.  To get your ex back in minutes, there are other steps involved, but this is a good start.  You can learn more about Get Your Ex Back If They Are Not That Into You specifics here.